why do people still push on doors that have “pull” signs on them? maybe it’s because pushing just requires us to straighten the arm by relaxing the bicep muscle… yet, pulling requires contraction of muscles, exerting more force and builds up lactic acid, inducing fatigue… that might be the reason why pushing someone away seems easier to do than pulling them to come back to you…
most people believe that ‘ i love you’ is the best thing you can say to anybody… but i have learned that “i love you too” has a greater impact on the human heart… anybody can get an “i love you” but not all of us can get an “I LOVE YOU TOO…”
“Don’t be flattered that he misses you. He should miss you. You’re deeply missable! However, he’s still the same person who just broke your heart. Remember, the only reason he can miss you is because he is CHOOSING everyday, not to be with you…”
–Greg Behrendt, He’s Just Not That Into You
sometimes you have to test someone not because you don’t trust them… but to see how much they’ll sacrifice for you… and sometimes you have to let them go not because you suddenly stopped loving them… but to see if they love you enough to come back…
Letting go is proper when you have already shown how much you love a person and still nothing happened… It is proper when you know it in your heart that you did your part and even half of her part but all remained unreciprocated… Letting go is not really giving up on how you feel about a certain person… It is sometimes just choosing to love her from afar… just from afar… to save yourself from further trouble…
In life, there’s many things that we have to learn to let go. We have to let go of situations, things, memories, people and even ourselves.
It’s easy to form an attachment to people. When you’ve formed an attachment to them, it can be a very painful experience and feeling when you realized that it’s time to let go. Even the mere thought of not having that person in your life just squeezes your heart in pain.
However, there are times where you or that person has changed to the extent that it’s necessary to let go of the relationship or friendship, so that each of you can fulfill your life path.
Letting go of your past and memories are also extremely hard. Even though old memories can be tormenting, yet you might hold on to the past and refuse to move forward. However, by refusing to let go of the painful past, it’ll serve as a roadblock to love.
Letting go of your old self and the process of letting the new you emerge can be one of the scariest experiences in your life. But by leaving behind your old self and taking a leap of faith into the unknown, it might just reveal what you are truly capable of becoming.
i guess this is it… "the end" of the best love story of my life… im letting you go though this is gradually crashing me apart… i have to… coz no matter how i try, i know and i feel that i can no longer make you love me… it hurts… so much… so to that person that now shines your day… the one who now makes you smile… kindly give her the love she never found in me…
it takes two to tango… it was my fault coz i did not listen to your side of the story but partly your fault too coz you lied.. you could’ve at least told me… yes i might be mad but in the end i will understand… you know i will understand… now where are we? LOST… you said you wanted space… but that space that you’re asking meant emptiness to me… do you know how much am i hurting? unexplainable… no you wouldn’t know what im going through coz you’re too numb to feel… life is so hard without you… im struggling everyday… im in pain from time to time… im crying my heart out…
for just once… i wanna be the reason why she cuts her hair just because i told her so… the reason why she eats something because it’s my favorite food… the reason why she wears a shirt just because i’m wearing the same color… the reason why she falls asleep holding her phone just because i told her i’ll call… the reason why she loves something she used to hate just because i love it… and lastly… i wanna be the reason why she smiles and laughs… i wanna be the "BECAUSE" of her every "WHYs"… just as SHE’S THE REASON FOR MY WHOLE BEING…
they argued…
the next day he gave her roses…
chocolates the day after…
then he asked her out for dinner by the beach under the moonlight…
the girl was touched and asked…
"is this your way of saying sorry?…"
he replied…
"… this is my way of saying goodbye…"
